Latest Dilemmas
📜 App Purchase
My child’s begging for a pricey in-game upgrade. Do I buy it to see them happy, or say no and push them to enjoy tech without extras?
Splurging keeps them engaged, but I’d rather they value what they’ve got.
Category: Technology
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Kitchen Clash
My child’s baking experiments have trashed the kitchen. Do I take it over to cook dinner in peace, or let them finish since it’s their creative zone?
A clean kitchen lets me unwind while cooking, but it’s their messy lab for learning and fun.
Category: Environment
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Toy Takeover
My kid’s toys are spilling out of their room into the hallway. Do I enforce a cleanup to keep my walking space clear, or let it spread since it’s their creative chaos?
A clear path keeps my environment functional, but their sprawl is how they play and claim the house.
Category: Environment
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Backyard Mess
My kid’s fort-building has trashed the yard with sticks and mud. Do I clean it up to keep the space usable, or leave it for their imagination despite the chaos?
A tidy yard restores order for everyone, but the mess fuels their play and connection to the space.
Category: Environment
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Project Perfection
My kid’s science fair project looks sloppy. Do I step in to polish it for a better grade, or let them submit it as is to own their effort?
Category: Education
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Cold Weather Gear
It’s freezing out, but my child refuses a coat. Do I make them wear it when they complain they are hot and want to take it off again, or let them go without and hope they don’t get sick?
Category: Health
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Sleep vs. Schedule
My child’s sports practice runs late, cutting into sleep. Do I pull them out for better rest, or keep them in for the team commitment?
Category: Health
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 School Board Debate
A local school policy I disagree with is up for vote. Do I speak out at the meeting and risk clashing with other parents, or stay quiet to keep the peace in my kid’s community?
Category: Politics
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Talking Politics
My child’s asking about a divisive issue. Do I share my honest opinion and risk shaping their views too early, or stay neutral and let them figure it out later?
Category: Politics
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Protest Participation
There’s a local rally for a cause I believe in, but it might get heated. Do I join to stand up for my values, or stay home to keep my kids out of potential chaos?
Category: Politics
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Voting Conflict
My preferred candidate supports policies that could hurt my kid’s school funding. Do I vote my conscience, or choose the one who benefits my family directly?
Category: Politics
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Impulse Buy
My kid spots a gadget at the checkout I hadn’t planned to buy. Do I grab it to reward their good behavior, or stick to the budget and risk disappointing them?
Category: Consumer
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Toy Overload
My child begs for a new toy they’ll likely forget. Do I give in to avoid a meltdown, or say no and teach them about wanting vs. needing?
Category: Consumer
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Brand Loyalty vs. Cost
My kid loves a pricey brand-name cereal. Do I buy it to make them happy, or switch to a cheaper generic and deal with their complaints?
Category: Consumer
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Plagiarism Temptation
My kid’s struggling with a school project. Do I let them copy something online to avoid a bad grade, or make them redo it honestly even if it means late nights?
Category: Ethics
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Kid’s Partner
My teen’s dating someone I don’t approve of. Do I voice my concerns and risk pushing them away, or stay silent and hope it fizzles out?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Friend Time
My buddies want a guys’ night out, but my spouse needs help at home. Do I go to maintain those friendships, or stay and risk drifting from my crew?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 In-Law Interference
My parents keep overstepping with parenting advice. Do I confront them to set boundaries, or stay quiet to avoid family drama?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Ex-Partner Conflict
My ex wants our child for an extra weekend, but it’s my time. Do I fight for my rights, or give in to avoid stressing out our kid?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Spousal Disagreement
My partner wants to handle our kid’s misbehavior differently. Do I argue for my method to stay consistent, or let it go to keep peace between us?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Career Change
I’m burned out in my current job and a new opportunity looks appealing. Do I switch for my own well-being, or stick it out for the steady paycheck my family relies on?
Category: Workplace
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Overtime Trade-Off
I can earn extra cash with overtime, but it means missing family dinners. Do I take the hours for financial security, or prioritize being home?
Category: Workplace
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Missing Events
A big work deadline conflicts with my kid’s recital. Do I skip the event to impress my boss, or attend and risk looking less committed at work?
Category: Workplace
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Relocation Opportunity
My company offers a promotion if I relocate. Do I uproot my family for the career boost, or stay put to keep my kids’ lives stable?
Category: Workplace
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Vacation Choices
The family’s split on vacation plans. Do I pick what the kids want to keep them happy, or choose something I’d enjoy too, even if they complain?
Category: Activities
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Future Planning
Do I push my high schooler to focus on college prep now, or let them enjoy their youth even if it might limit their options later?
Category: Education
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Social Media
Should I let my preteen have a social media account to fit in with friends, or ban it to protect them from online risks?
Category: Technology
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Hobby Support
My kid’s obsessed with an expensive hobby. Do I fully invest in it to encourage their passion, or set limits to keep the budget in check?
Category: Financial
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Emotional Outbursts
My child’s throwing a tantrum. Do I give in to calm them down quickly, or hold firm and deal with the chaos to teach self-control?
Category: Education
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Sleepover Rules
My teen wants to sleep over at a friend’s house I don’t know well. Do I trust their judgment, or say no and risk them resenting me?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 14 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Tech Purchases
Should I buy my kid the latest gadget they’re begging for, or hold off to teach them about earning things through effort?
Category: Technology
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Sports Pressure
My kid loves soccer but isn’t great at it. Do I push them to practice more, or let them enjoy it at their own pace even if they don’t improve?
Category: Activities
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Food Battles
Do I force my picky eater to finish their vegetables, or let them eat what they like to keep mealtime peaceful?
Category: Health
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Peer Influence
My child’s friend is a bad influence. Do I forbid them from hanging out, or let it play out and hope my kid learns to make good choices?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Sick Days
Should I send my kid to school with a mild cold so I can get to work, or keep them home and risk falling behind on my own responsibilities?
Category: Health
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Role Modeling
Do I hide my own frustrations and flaws to set a perfect example, or let my kids see me as human and teach them how to handle imperfection?
Category: Education
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Handling Failure
My kid didn’t make the team. Do I intervene and talk to the coach, or let them face disappointment and learn resilience?
Category: Activities
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Personal Time
Should I take an evening for myself to recharge, or dedicate it to my family even though I’m feeling burned out?
Category: Health
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Helping with Homework
Do I step in and guide my child through their homework to ensure they succeed, or let them struggle to build independence?
Category: Education
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Extracurricular Overload
Should I sign my kid up for another activity to help them explore their interests, or pull back to avoid overscheduling and stress?
Category: Education
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Partner Disagreement
My spouse and I disagree on how to handle a parenting situation. Do I push my approach or compromise even if I think it’s less effective?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Saying Yes or No
Do I say yes to my child’s request for something frivolous to avoid a meltdown, or say no to teach them about boundaries and delayed gratification?
Category: Education
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Screen Time Limits
Should I allow my kids more screen time to keep them occupied while I get things done, or stick to strict limits even if it means more hands-on supervision?
Category: Technology
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Discipline vs. Friendship
Do I enforce strict rules to teach my child responsibility, or let them off easy to maintain a closer, friendlier relationship?
Category: Relationships
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Work-Life Balance
Should I take on extra hours at work to provide more for my family, or spend that time at home bonding with my kids?
Category: Workplace
Posted: 15 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Ethical AI Images
Is it ethical to take a politician one dislikes, and use an AI to produce images of them as a villain?
Asking for a friend...
😆
Category: Ethics
Posted: 24 days ago
Solutions: 1
Votes: 2
View & Vote📜 Free speech or limited speech?
Where does one draw the lines between free speech rights, and limited speech restrictions (i.e. incitement to violence, libel, etc)?
Category: Other
Posted: 24 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Time vs. Money
You’re offered a side gig or a promotion that pays significantly more than your current job, enough to ease financial stress or save for something big.
The catch is it demands an extra 15-20 hours a week, cutting into time with family, friends, or hobbies that keep you grounded.
You could take the money and build a more secure future, or stick with what you have and preserve your free time and relationships.
Question: Do you take the extra work for the financial gain, or prioritize your time and personal life? How do you balance what you need now versus what you want long-term?
Category: Ethics
Posted: 26 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 Raise the bar, or accept it lower than ideal?
Raising the bar creates resentment.
Keep doing it anyway?
Category: Ethics
Posted: 26 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
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📜 Burger King or McDonald's?
Just testing the url, image and YouTube video passing in dilemmas.
https://YouTube.com
Category: Other
Posted: 27 days ago
Solutions: 1
Votes: 3
View & Vote📜 Pineapple on Pizza
Age old icebreaker... to put the pineapple on the pizza, or not to put the pineapple on the pizza?
A question most divisive...
Category: Other
Posted: 27 days ago
Solutions: 1
Votes: 2
View & Vote📜 Testing this out
I'm just testing the notification system tagging with an @name that doesn't exist, and one that does @john
Category: Other
Posted: 28 days ago
Solutions: 0
Votes: 0
View & Vote📜 How ought the Russia / Ukraine conflict be resolved?
Short of WW3 or nuclear devastation / millions upon millions of deaths, how ought this conflict reasonably be handled and resolved?
Category: Ethics
Posted: 1 month ago
Solutions: 1
Votes: 1
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